Showing posts with label Denmark. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Denmark. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 2

Happy New Year, folks!

Well, we're back from our Christmas holiday in Denmark. Arrived at Gatwick last night at 8:00pm and took a National Express bus at 9:00. We were back in our apartment by 12:30am. Mixed feelings about being back. On the one hand, it's nice to be in our own domain and in our own bed and we're anxious to get the year started. On the other hand, the apartment is freezing (52 deg F with the heat off, 55-60 deg F with it on), the shower really sucks, and we have to drive on narrow roads with cars parked on one side so traffic can't actually pass normally. By the way, the house we were in for Christmas was built at the same time as this apartment building and it was nice and toasty, had good water pressure, and didn't have mold growing on the walls. Hmm.

Sorry, just had to get that off our collective chest. Anyway...

We were in Denmark from the 20th to the 1st, staying at my aunt's house. We had a really relaxing time (I'm pretty sure I didn't think about work even one time) and ate copious amounts of great home-cooked Christmas food and went to the local bakery almost every other day to get some real Danishes (so good they make you weak at the knees).

Christmas Eve was held at my cousin AB's house. She and her partner, M, prepared a tasty turkey with some Danish trimmings (like Brune kartofler). We had the traditional ris a la mande for dessert. K won the almond prize. Then we circled around the Christmas tree singing Danish Christmas hymns and carols (K even tried to sing along with the songbook). This is a tradition that you have to go through before the presents are given out. I was Santa's stand-in, distributing the presents from under the tree.

Christmas Day was spent at my aunt's house. We had a three course Danish Christmas lunch of pickled herring, smoked salmon, various cold cuts, then medister sausages and a pork roast with "Green-Long Kale". All swilled down with beer and Akvavit. Later in the day, we played a long game of Risk.

Until New Year's Eve, we pretty much just relaxed at my aunt's house, reading, watching tv, going for walks, doing a bit of shopping for Danish goodies to take home, etc. I bought some fireworks for New Year's, too. Fireworks are a big deal for New Year's in Europe. We had dinner at my aunt's house. It was a cozy little dinner with all of us around a raclette grill on the dining room table. We finished eating around 9, so we had to kill some time before midnight by doing the dishes, watching Queen Margrethe's New Year's speech, playing a card game, and then catching Dinner For One just before midnight. We toasted with authentic champagne and had the traditional Danish "kransekage" before going out to partake the fussillade of fireworks. K was amazed at how many there were flying up everywhere. Got to bed around 1:30.

All of us slept in the next day and had a very leisurely breakfast then K and I started packing our suitcases for the evening flight back to England. And here we are.

I'm heading back to work tomorrow and K is going to get back to her PhD. It's going to be an active year, so it was nice to have so it was nice to have a relaxing Christmas vacation.

*Please make sure to read the preceding blog entry, our year-in-review. And we'll be adding more pictures HERE soon.

Saturday, August 14

Another Low-key Day

More laundry this morning and watching a bit of the first Olympics events. As the day wore on I started getting antsy about "doing something". Mostly because H and K weren't as familiar with Denmark as the Pedersen-pod is, I wanted to make sure they saw a little more of it while they were here. Took us a long time to settle on something to do. Finally we decided to drive up to Skagen, the tip of Jylland where the North Sea and the Baltic meet. When the current is just right, you can see the seas meeting each other as the waves collide and form peaks. This action has a strong affect on the sand-bar (spidsen or "the point") at the tip of Denmark. It will shorten or elongate with the seasons. Another profound thing about these two seas meeting is that you can stand with one foot in each see and usually feel the temperature difference. The North sea is normally warmer than the Baltic.

So... K, S, H and I piled in the BMW and took the one hour drive up there. Nice day, nice drive. Got there in the early afternoon. Quite a few tourists out there this time of year, but we didn't have any trouble finding a parking space. We bought a ticket for the Sand Worm, a bus-like trailer pulled by an enormous tractor. This makes it easy to get out to The Point. It had been many years since I was up there, so I had forgotten how close it was to the parking lot. We could have walked there within 10 minutes! Oh well, the tickets weren't very expensive.

Not optimal "viewing conditions" for The Point today. Made me look like a liar actually. The waves weren't making the usual peaks and there was not much difference in temperature. In fact, the North Sea seemed cooler than the Baltic. The amount of tourists out there made it hard to get a good photo. Bit of a bummer, but it was still really nice weather. I was wishing I had worn my swim trunks as the water was very inviting.

After 20 minutes or so up there, we decided to gradually walk back to where we had parked. I tried to give our Sand Worm tickets to people who we passed, but no one wanted them. Lots of German bunkers from WWII in Jylland. Many of them are still here, as unused as they were back then. After the occupation, there wasn't any real fighting in Denmark. Just a lot of guys sitting in bunkers playing cards, I guess. We stood on top of one of the big bunkers for a while, then went to get ice cream from the tourist trap near the parking lot.

And then, back home for dinner and more Olympics on television.

Monday, August 9

The Aftermath

Many of us slept in a little bit today. Not because we had overdone it yesterday, but more because of all the work that went into putting the party together. K and I were obviously not fatigued from this because we did minimal work. Such is the price of being guests of honor and a certain amount of the things that had to be done were to be kept in secret from us so we obviously couldn't help with those things.

The plan for today was to have a late lunch and then drive down to the Randers area to return the grill that was used to cook the pig. The whole Pedersen/Tønnesen/Johnsson pod would come along on this adventure because after returning the grill we would head to Randers Rainforest.

So, after a late lunch, we all piled into Hans's Volvo, Niklas's Seat and our BMW. The grill was stowed in the trailer hitched to Hans's Volvo. The entire caravan slowly drove to our first destination a little bit north of Randers. This took more than an hour from what I can remember.

We dropped off the grill and then headed over to the Randers Rainforest (Info). This is a "bio-dome" type zoo that emulates the rainforest climates of South America, Asia and Africa. Each continent is in it's own section of this complex. It is made to be as close to a natural habitat as you can get in a zoo situation. Many of the animals are able to roam free. Kristen made friends with a Golden Lion Tamarin who got very amorous towards her hand. She seemed to have this affect on many of the animals, including a lonely bachelor tapir.

It was hot and humid in each of the rainforest environments. We were all quite sweaty by the time we had seen everything, so we replenished ourselves with water and ice cream. A quick group photo and we headed back home. However, we had to stop at Ella's house to drop off the trailer. She tried very hard to have us all come in for a cup of coffee, but we were very tired and ready to go home and have dinner.

Tonight's dinner was the leftover flounder filets with assorted side dishes and a salad. We all sat at the picnic table again. That flounder was just amazing, even the day after it had been cooked.

Sunday, August 8

VW Day (cont'd)

The Ceremony...
Up until this point, we had been lead to believe that the ceremony would take place in the parking lot outside the hall. When our "guide", Helle, told us to drive in another direction, we were a bit surprised. However, as we got closer, I realized where we were heading: Lindholm Høje (a Viking burial site near Vadum). When we got there, we saw a large gathering of people up on the hill. All dressed as Vikings, but not the war garb that you see in the movies, but in the Viking "everyday wear". We met our witnesses, Torsten and Ann-Britt, and waited for the signal to approach. First, I was signalled to walk up to the ceremonial gathering with Torsten. As I approached the group, they parted and formed a "human hallway" cheering and waving birch branches in the air over my head. I took my place in front of Christian of Grambye. Then Kristen approached with Ann-Britt and was received the same way as me. She took her spot, facing me. At this point, it pretty much proceeds as the following (adapted by my father from a viking wedding ceremony script) with each speaker delivering lines in Danish and English.

Cast of Characters:
Kristen as Kristen Oregonsdatter
Richard as Richard of Denmark
Christian Grambye as Christian of Grambye (Ceremony conductor)
Torsten Lunild as Torsten Lunildsøn (Richard's witness)
Ann-Britt Tønnesen as AnnBrittBørgesdatter (Kristen's witness)
Trine Lunild as Trine Lunsdatter (viking woman who objects)
Flemming Pedersen as Flemming Pederssøn (viking man who objects)
Bruno Madsen as Bruno The Giant

Christian of Grambye
We are gathered here today to witness the pairing of Kristen Oregonsdatter and Richard of Denmark. Who speaks for this woman?


Ann BrittBørgesdatter
I speak for this woman.

Christian of Grambye
And who speaks for this man?

Torsten Lunildsøn
I speak for this man.

Christian of Grambye
Let it be known that there are at least two witnesses to this betrothal. Has the bride’s price been agreed with the family?

Richard
Yes it has.

Christian of Grambye
Let the witnesses step forth and give their names.

Torsten Lunildsøn
I am Torsten Lunildsøn

AnnBritt Børgesdatter
I am AnnBritt Børgesdatter

Christian of Grambye
It is hereby agreed that the bride price is available to compensate for her labor value and therefore you, Richard of Denmark, must pay the price to the family immediately after this union or you shall forever live in shame. In return you shall receive the dowry, which you must keep and never use without her consent. Tradition dictates that Richard of Denmark shall give to his bride his sword that he and his forefathers have carried in battle which she must keep, maintain, and pass on to her son and he to his bride on the occasion of his marriage. Richard of Denmark, if you have such a sword, you must now give it into Kristen Oregonsdatter’s keeping.

Richard gives Kristen his sword, handle first (as you do not point a sword at another person unless you want to fight).

Christian of Grambye
Kristen Oregonsdatter, now Richard of Denmark has no sword to defend you and your kin. So if you have a new sword, never tried in battle, you must give it into Richard of Denmark’s keeping.

AnnBritt gives Kristen a new sword, which she gives to Richard, and he places it into his belt.

Christian of Grambye
The bridal gifts and swords have been exchanged according to tradition.

The crowd cheers, raising their branches.

Christian of Grambye
I now ask all those who are assembled here today, are there any persons, who are not in agreement with the bonding in marriage of this man and this woman? If so, they must step forward now and state their objections before the gathered guests and witnesses or forever hold their peace and never gainsay the marriage.

Christian of Grambye looks over the crowd they cheer in approval of the marriage. Suddenly, one Viking in the back raises his sword, loudly objecting to the marriage:

Flemming Pederssøn
I am Flemming Pederssøn and I object to this bond. I want Kristen Oregonsdatter and I want her to have me. I raise my sword against you Richard of Denmark.

Christian of Grambye gets worried and looks to Torsten for support. Torsten Lunildsøn steps in front of Richard:

Torsten Lunildsøn
I am Torsten Lunildsøn and I speak AND defend my true friend, Richard of Denmark. He is the true soul mate for Kristen Oregonsdatter and she for him. She has no interest in you. I therefore take you on to defend the honor of my friend.

As he speaks he jumps into the crowd which lets him pass forming a circle around the two Vikings. Richard and Kristen watch as a wild fight develops between the Vikings. As the fighting gets wild, a Viking woman screams her objections from the crowd:

Trine Lunsdatter
I am Trine Lunsdatter and I object to this bond in marriage. I want Richard of Denmark. He is mine and I challenge you Kristen Oregonsdatter.

Christian of Grambye now gets really worried as he sees his ceremony going totally off track. He looks around to see how he can solve this new problem. Suddenly AnnBritt jumps forward and shouts:

AnnBritt Børgesdatter
I am Kristen’s true friend and I know she deserves Richard of Denmark and you don’t, you wench!

As AnnBritt is shouting her lines, she jumps into the circle of the two fighting Vikings and leaps for Trine. They engage in a wild fight much to the entertainment of the crowd. The crowd cheers the fighting couples and waves their branches. At the climax of the fight, Bruno the Giant jumps in and separates the combatants. Flemming is thrown to the ground and Bruno holds him in place with his foot.

Bruno the Giant
I am Bruno the Giant and I want order. Anyone objecting to this union between my friends must deal with me first.

Bruno over the crowd. Flemming under his foot is getting uncomfortable and wants out. Trine is jumping from the pain she is feeling by Bruno’s grasp of her arm. The fighting Vikings are afraid of Bruno and respect him, so they don’t attempt to do anything. Bruno now lets go of Trine and AnnBritt chases her off the arena to the cheers of the crowd, and she returns to stand by Kristen. Bruno also lets go of Flemming who jumps up and runs away from the arena to the cheers of the crowd.

Bruno The Giant
Anyone else who is against this union of my friends?

Crowd
NO!!!

Bruno The Giant
Now that everyone is in agreement we will fill our drinking horns with mead and drink. Then we can proceed.

Bottles are passed around in the crowd; they fill their drinking horns, and drink with each other. Hereafter the ceremony continues.

Christian of Grambye
Richard of Denmark, will you take this woman Kristen Oregonsdatter into your life, support her and her family in good times and in bad times, protect her against the enemies and of the natural elements, give her the keys to your house and valuable, and accept her as the mistress of your households?

Richard of Denmark
I will.

Christian of Grambye
Kristen Oregonsdatter, will you take this man Richard of Denmark into your life, to be your husband, to be faithful to him, to support him and his family in good times and in bad, fight with him against enemies and the natural elements, and do you accept the keys to his house, to be responsible for managing his household and property, to preserve and protect it for your life together?

Kristen Oregonsdatter
I will.

Richard takes his keys from his belt, puts them on the handle of his sword and gives them to Kristen. Bruno steps forward with a bottle of Viking Mead. Richard and Kristen take their drinking horns from their belts and Bruno pours a little Mead into them.

Christian of Grambye
Now I ask you to offer your respect to Odin and Freja, the protectors of prosperity and fertility and ask that you may always have what you need and produce many strong children who will make your family proud and bring new blood to your families.

Richard and Kristen pour mead on the ground as a token of their respect. Then Bruno pours more mead in their horns. They link arms as they drink. Now AnnBritt walks up to Kristen with a flower wreath and puts it on her head.

Christian of Grambye
Kristen Oregonsdatter has received her flower wreath as a symbol of her vows and to show all men that she is no longer an available woman, and she now belongs to Richard of Denmark and Richard to her. The ring you are wearing shall forever show all men that you are a married couple. You may now offer your affection to each other.

Richard and Kristen kiss and the crowd cheers. They again form a gate holding their branches high. Kristen and Richard walk through the gate to their family and wait until the guests have departed.


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A few posed random photos:

Kristen and Rich with the new sword, untested in battle

Rich's cousin Ann-Britt and her boyfriend, Morten

Kristen, Rich, and the Swedish niece and nephew, Nathalie and Christopher

Stephanie (Rich's sis) and her Cuban boyfriend, Henrry